Clueless or Mean?

UGH!! My 'friend' who dropped the preggo bomb on me last night in church just became a member of facebook, and she saw my status that said "still can't believe a friend could be so insensitive". Well, she decided to comment, and here is what she had to say: "Hey girl! Just got through with some work and thought I'd check out facebook for the first time ever. This is cool. A little slow with dial-up but ok. Who's been treatin' ya bad?" WTF???!!!! Hellooooooo?? Are you that freaking clueless, or just playing stupid? You be the judge.